The limiting beliefs that you are told your entire life shape everything that you do. They have even prevented you from seeing new and different possibilities and stop you from creating more in your life.
Every choice creates many possibilities, not a single result. You only think that you fail if you are too vested in a certain outcome and if you are looking for a particular result. It’s just a choice. It’s not a right or wrong choice.
For some people, self-confidence with regard to personal relationships is challenging. You may find that you have confidence in many other areas of your life - your business, talents, and so forth - but lack the confidence to have successful personal relationships.